Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Monkey Noggin Check 08/21/2012

So i went to Cranial Technologies yesterday with the Baby and Eddie I found them while googling like a mad women about Torticollis and Cranial shape issues.. No one else has ever noticed so just in case you have not either Syler has always favored his right side.. he will always tilt his head to right and when he is sitting or laying down he will lay his right side against the carrier or crib or whatever.. MONTHS of this cause a flat side on the right side of his head. SEVERE! Eddy never noticed and neither did any one else.. Seeing pics at Dr's office regarding misshapen head etc.. I saw the pics and although to me Syler's seamed bad it did not look as bad as the pics i saw. So i never brought it up to the Dr and i stressed out about it at on my own.. I bought the Pillow from target and started to see a HUGE difference in the shape of his Noggin and his facial features started to even out. Looking down over his head while in my lap i can still see that his ears are NOT at all even.. and his head is still a little off.. etc.. I found this place on line who are reputable and had lots of great reviews and they offered a free exam so i said why not. I went in thinking that his head had improved already so he may not need the band .. prob just therapy for his neck muscle.. When we arrived at Cranial Technologies they had us strip monkey to his diapers and sit him in the middle of a 3d camera circle. they placed a type of gauze or nylon material over his entire head.. (he looked like he was about to rob the cookie factory) I started laughing uncontrollably after that.. from my nerves and because he kept trying to eat it his eyes were drooped down and he was smiling..any hoot... they took pics of his head and the asked that we go back to the room..when the therapist finally came in.. she asked questions and i asked my own..we then looked at the pics and she showed us how misshapen his head still is.. she mentioned the ear alignment and some other things i have already noticed.. I had already done LOTS AND LOTS of research so the things she was saying came as no surprise.. until she said he will need to be fitted with a Cranial Band (helmet type thing) if we do it now he will wear it for 3 months.. the longer we wait the longer he will have to keep it on... Medicaid requires that we go through a specialist who then has to refer us to cranial tech and then we can get the band.. therapy has to go through Dr Giraldi (his dr) The Band cost 3800.00 I already knew this . but i also mentioned that i read that if i have medicaid even if they don't pay we qualify for a cheaper cost.. she said yes it will be 2500.00 still a lot but doable.. If it were up to me i would have started the molding for the band yesterday.. and started the therapy.. but i need to relax and talk to his Dr and see what he thinks... I asked the therapist if with continuous use of the head pillow hes been using ( which has greatly helped his noggin) and repositioning, if his head is capable of correcting itself .. or of its gotten to the point where repositioning and pillow have done what they can and now its time to do more.. she said he def needs the therapy to help his neck muscle relax and keep him from favoring his right side (something that may have happened while in utero ) and the band will help correct his head where it is at now... I called Dr Spider-man (Girladi) and left a message asking that he call me so we can discuss the info i got yesterday and the pics he will be receiving in three to four days from them. I want to see if he thinks Syler can be helped with just the therapy and the repositioning at home. The Rock and Play which he has slept in since birth is a major contributor the the flat head.. the torticollis also added to the problem. She said that they should have a warning on box regarding flat head.. when using that sleeper.. AGAIN the guilt hit because i Knew in my gut we needed to move Syler to his crib at 2 months but after discussing it we decided to wait because we were worried about SIDS.. She kept asking why i didn't discuss with Dr when i noticed a problem and again i felt guilty because i really should have.. BUT I NOTICED and Im taking action and have been for months now... so that is what is important that my little monkey gets the help he needs now... So i am waiting for doc to call me back and then decide what our next action is... just wanted to fill you in.... and i will keep you updated This is a pic of what his head looked like before i started using pillow .. it's still like this but less severe. Brachycephaly with Plagiocephaly This is the special Band he will be using if Dr agrees with Diagnosis from therapist. What is the DOC Band®? The DOC Band, a 6-ounce device, consists of an outer plastic shell with a foam lining. Each DOC Band is different and made specifically for each child by the experienced Cranial Technologies manufacturing team in Tempe, Ariz. We only use high-quality materials to ensure that it does not cause irritation. The light weight of the DOC Band is important because it doesn’t interfere with a child’s balance or daily activities.

Friday, June 01, 2012

""This bud of love, by summer's ripening breath, May prove a beauteous flower when next we meet." from Romeo & Juliet"

July 2012 ~ CREATION
August 29 2011
September 2011
October 2011 The Reveal
November 2011
December 2011
January 2012
Feb 2012
March 2012
April 2012

Syler Being Cute

Friday, May 25, 2012

Syler Mason Durand born 04/14/2012

"Good Morning Starshine The Earth says HELLO"
4 days after my last post Baby Syler was born... He weighed 7lbs 8oz and measuring 19inc. He came early as I expected and has been bringing starshine into our lives ever since. I've still got Mommy brain so this will not be long. Just wanted to point out my fear of not loving him as much as i love Summer was totally smashed to bits as soon as i looked into his beautiful face. Somehow your heart expands and you feel it take over your entire being with the love and appreciation of holding yet another little life in your hands. I love them both so unconditionally and soooooooo equally that i feel silly for having been worried at all. Daddy is slowly learning the ropes and we have now come up with a sleep system to keep me from going insane and helping him bond with baby Syler..I love every second i have with him and my big girl Summer.... look forward to blogging all about it soon.... when big words are a part of my vocabulary again

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

April 10, 2012 ~ Signs

The signs are all there... Plug drop, belly drop, lots of other things DROPPING.
In 2 days I will be 37 weeks pregnant. 3 weeks to go to the BIG day given by Doc.(APRIL 30 2012 C-Section)

I don't think i will be waiting that long.. All signs again are pointing for an early delivery... Baby Syler already weighs 7 pounds 7 oz. My tiny body feels like it would be easier to roll my way around than try and hold the weight up on these short legs.

I'm excited but i am mostly scared. Of the pain, of the recovery, of the immense change our everyday lives are about to take. I can't wait to hold Our baby in my arms and have him look into my eyes and tie the strings that will bind his heart to mine forever. I want to smell his little neck, hold his little hands and kiss his tummy.

I want to start the journey with him. I want to watch the light of fatherhood light up in his father's eyes. I want Summer to hold her brother. That bond will be a tight one i know it.

I am SCARED! but mostly of the starting over ... the change... but i know it will be a change that will bring love, joy and togetherness into the life of everyone he meets. .... Im ready <3

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

2012 ING Marathon